K, I'm going to talk about my thoughts about flirting/ dating with your better half
Dating these days is getting damn complicated. Either you know your game or you don't. I consider flirting as a refined art, you make a mistake and then you either grow out of it or you quit. The whole problem I think is the self conscious issue. In my opinion self confidence comes from head to toe. Hair, complexion, weight, height. Plus clothes and shoes. You gotta be 100% confident in all these areas in order to not be too self conscious.
One thing which is the most difficult part about flirting/ dating is when your better half is playing hard to get. Playing hard to get is a good thing, it simply means that they don't come cheap. But playing TOO hard to get is simply tiring to keep up. Usually I would think shes not interested, has a bf or is gay. The easy ones are are the real trouble, either they are prob easy with other guys too or they will cling to you like super glue. If you find a very pretty girl who seems easy to you, either you are damn attractive or effective. Either way, I wouldn't waste my chances ;) (unless shes fugly or i'm already in a committed relationship)
The thing about dating is, time and money consuming. But the rewards on getting a love companion is totally worth it. Sometimes at the end of the day I feel really worn out with the whole thing and need a break from her (not a breakup, just a short break). Then I usually come back refreshed with more energy.
Language wise, its pretty tough for me to communicate with chinese speaking chix. Usually when I find an attractive one whos english educated, shes prob playing too hard to get, has a bf or simply not interested. Eventually when I do get her, shes a hell a lot of mantainance.. Getting it on with a girl who goes to church is prob better. I prefer the down to earth type, but yet attractive.
Keh i typed too much, enough for today
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interesting topic. well, actually not too unusual, but something i'd comment about.
i'm not in malaysia at the moment, so i've gotten used to dating where i am right now where things are different. or, well, if you call it dating. i try to remember how it was back in malaysia and i do remember, gosh it's pretty damn difficult for guys to get girls. but i do hate how the typical thing to do for girls is to just ''look pretty and wait and hopefully the guy comes to you'', or then you'd be labeled as a slut if you made the move first. i dont know where this comes from and how it hasn't stopped despite the fact that everyone knows how painful it is. anyway... hm. actually i'm not sure what point i was trying to make. =)
Interesting point kiyaa.Now i see it from a girl's point of perspective :) thanks for the comment, i thought no one actually reads this "Thoughts" blog
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